How to Tell If a Snake is Comfortable with You

Even captive-bred snakes have the basic instincts of wild animals, so they won’t trust their human owners right away. It is easier to take care of a happy snake, but this process takes time and patience. That’s why it’s so important to be able to tell if a pet snake is comfortable with you.

You can determine whether a snake is happy and contented in your company based on its body language. A comfortable snake is calm and relaxed, moving slowly around its enclosure and gently draping itself around your hands when you handle it. A stressed or nervous snake will move quickly and abruptly, and it may hiss or strike at you.

It can be hard to read a snake’s body language at first. Understanding how to tell whether a snake feels safe around you is necessary for taking good care of your snake, not to mention avoiding getting bitten.

Is a Snake Comfortable Around You?

It may be difficult to imagine why a snake might not be comfortable around a gentle-natured human. After all, humans are much more likely to be scared of snakes than the other way around, right?

The truth is, a snake can easily perceive a human as a threat. These are wild animals, not domesticated pets like dogs or cats. To a snake’s senses, a human is very big and loud, not to mention strong. You could easily hurt a snake, and the snake knows this. So it makes sense why a snake might not be comfortable around you or other humans.

If a snake is uncomfortable with you, that can have a negative impact on your ability to interact with or take care of the snake. Pennsylvania State University reports that stressed-out snakes are more likely to strike at an approaching human. Less-stressed snakes will instead perform a threat display. The release of stress hormones is highly correlated with defensive behavior from snakes.

But without performing hormone tests on your snake, how can you tell whether a snake is comfortable with you? Fortunately, there are other clear signs that you can look for.

Signs That a Snake Is Comfortable

According to the journal In Practice, veterinary surgeons can use the behavior of a snake to figure out whether a snake is comfortable or stressed. While a snake’s body language may be unfamiliar at first, you too can learn to recognize the signs of a contented snake.

Calmly Tasting The Air

You will see a relaxed snake calmly flicking its tongue into the air every once in a while. The snake is taking in chemical samples from the air around it, supplementing its sense of smell.

It may also lick nearby objects sometimes, to get a better idea of what’s around it. This is a normal kind of environmental exploration for a snake, unrushed and unconcerned.

Unhurried Movement

Watching a comfortable snake move around its enclosure might make you feel like falling asleep. A snake does not have a busy schedule to keep, and so it may appear a bit lazy in behavior as it crawls along.

If the snake is not slithering around, it may stretch out its body and bask on a rock, obviously comfortable and relaxed. When you see a snake draped all over a branch or rock in its enclosure, like a scarf thrown onto a chair, that is a comfortable snake.

A Relaxed Alertness Level

If you present a snake with an unfamiliar object, such as a new branch to climb on or some food to eat, it will react to the new presence. A comfortable snake will show some interest in the new object, but not any excessive wariness. It will look at the object calmly, without alarm.

A Gentle Grip

As you handle a snake which is comfortable with you, it will show a trust in your grip. The snake may wrap itself around your hands or fingers, but not tightly. Its grasp may be firm for stability, but it will not squeeze so much that it hurts you.

A snake which is comfortable with you will also feel free to explore your arms and shoulders when you hold it. It will move just as calmly and slowly as it would anywhere else, using your body as a surface to climb.

Generally Normal Behavior

The longer you own a snake, the more you will get used to how it normally behaves. How vigorously does the snake eat or drink? How rapidly does it breathe? How often does it get up and explore its enclosure?

A snake is an individual creature and so it will have slightly different habits from another snake. A snake which maintains regular habits of behavior is showing that it is comfortable. If you notice a sudden change in behavior, on the other hand, that may be a sign that your snake is uncomfortable.

Signs That a Snake Is Feeling Worried

You can also tell from a snake’s behavior when it is not comfortable with you. Make note of the following behavioral signs:


Snakes are usually quite lazy in behavior. If a snake is moving around its enclosure an unusual amount, as though it were pacing, this can be a sign that the snake is not comfortable. The snake may also move in fits and starts, as though hesitant to take a long time about going anywhere.

You may also see a more fearful snake move more rapidly, darting from one hiding spot to another. This is a snake that does not feel safe enough to stay still. An uncomfortable snake may jerk its body or jump around, as opposed to its usual slow, steady motions.

A hyperactive snake will also display extra alertness towards new objects in its environment. It will be more likely to avoid looking at or interacting with these objects, as though suspicious about their presence.

Flattened Body Posture

A snake that is feeling afraid may flatten itself against a surface. This is different from casually draping itself across a branch in a relaxed manner. This snake is tense and trying to make itself small and hard to notice.

In the wild, snakes will flatten themselves against the ground or a tree branch to blend in and avoid being noticed by a predator. A flattened captive snake is not comfortable.

You may also see a snake hide its head under the furnishing or plants in the enclosure. It may even bury its head in the substrate. If a snake seems to be playing the “if I can’t see you, you can’t see me” game, then it is unhappy.

Interacting With The Walls

Even a relaxed snake will occasionally try to escape its enclosure. A snake is a curious creature, and any hole or gap its finds, it will consider worth exploring. If you have set up a secure enclosure, though, a comfortable snake will give up the search.

An uncomfortable snake may persistently attempt to escape its enclosure. It will interact non-stop with the walls of the enclosure, both opaque and transparent. The snake may push against the walls, try to climb up the walls, or dig in the substrate by the walls in an attempt to tunnel out.

Snakes are not great at recognizing invisible barriers. As a result, an uncomfortable snake driven to escape at any cost may continue pushing and digging at the clear walls until it hurts itself.


A relaxed snake does not often hiss. Hissing is a defensive behavior that a snake uses to alert a threat to stay away. When a snake hisses, you may see it repeatedly inflate and deflate its body to create the sound.

Eating Problems

A comfortable snake will accept regular meals and keep its food down well. If your snake is refusing to eat, this may be a sign that the snake is not comfortable getting its food from you.

Any snake can go on a bit of a hunger strike now and again. However, if it gets to the point where your snake has not eaten for several weeks or is visibly losing weight, this is a problem for the snake’s health.

A snake that is uncomfortable with you may also voluntarily regurgitate its food when you come near it. Some snakes use regurgitation as a way to scare off predators. Regurgitation may also be a sign of illness in a snake, so if this happens a lot, take your snake to a reptile veterinarian.

Clutching Onto You

As you handle your snake, if it is uncomfortable, it may wrap tightly around your hand or fingers. This is a sign that the snake does not feel supported in your grip. It may also indicate that the snake feels exposed and is trying to find a place to hide.

Striking Out At You

The biggest sign that a snake is uncomfortable with you is if it displays outright aggression, such as a strike. Snakes may strike out with either their teeth or their tail, depending on the species and their common defense mechanisms.

This strike may be a mock strike, which does not actually involve the snake’s teeth or tail making contact with your skin. A snake which is stressed enough will strike for real, biting you.

Why Might a Snake Be Uncomfortable?

Now that you know how to recognize a snake’s discomfort, let’s talk about some reasons why a snake may be uncomfortable.

  • Overcrowding due to too many snakes in one enclosure
  • Feels too exposed in its enclosure
  • The enclosure is too warm or too cold
  • The enclosure is too dry or too humid
  • A snake is experiencing an uneven day/night cycle
  • The snake was shaken, dropped, or otherwise mistreated
  • Snake is in an unfamiliar environment or is with a new handler
signs of a happy snake

Making a Snake Comfortable With You

The good news is, you can turn an uncomfortable snake into a comfortable one. It just takes time, patience, and care.

A Comfortable Home

You may have noticed that a lot of the reasons why a snake may be uncomfortable are to do with its enclosure. Before you get a snake, you want to be sure it has an appropriate enclosure that makes the snake comfortable. This gives you a good ground level of comfort to work from with a snake.

Before you get a new snake, do your research to find out what the snake needs. Answer the following questions:

  • How much space does it need?
  • How many snakes can comfortably live in the same enclosure?
  • Does it need rocks or plants to hide under?
  • How warm should the enclosure be?
  • How humid should the enclosure be?
  • How much daylight does the snake need?

Give It Time To Adjust

Researchers at Oregon State University found that younger garter snakes exhibited hormonal increases related to stress, such as corticosterone, when they were captured for testing. Older garter snakes that had been through the tests before, however, had a less pronounced stress response.

These older, more experienced garter snakes were also less likely to let their stress affect their behavior as well. This shows that over time, snakes can become familiarized with a stressor and adapt to it.

A new environment and a new human to interact with are both stressors for a snake. When you first bring the snake home, give it a week or two to get used to its enclosure. After that break, regularly handle your snake around once each week so that it can get used to your presence.

Being able to tell if a snake is comfortable with you allows you to give the snake the care it needs to live a happy life. Be patient with your snake, and pay close attention to its behavior. If you have questions about an unusual behavior, you can always reach out to a reptile veterinarian for help.

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Lou Carter

Hi, I'm Lou. I’ve always been fascinated by snakes and reptiles. That’s why I set up – to answer every question that you could ever have about snakes as pets (and how they survive in the wild.) I hope that you find this website useful!

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3 thoughts on “How to Tell If a Snake is Comfortable with You”

  1. Hello! Ok, i am what you would call a somewhat experienced ball python owner as well as well versed in reading and understanting Ball Python behavoir. But, even experienced owners ban make near fatal mistakes. I made a huge mistake about 5 weeks ago, and my BP has not been exactly the same, since then. It is difficult to tell, however, as he and i have an incredibly close bond, and he is already calm. I am his first and only owner. As well as he is my first BP and have added two to my collection in the past 2 years. So, i made hides for all the snakes one day. Stunning gorgeous hides. One, i put rocks and the tile glue on the inside of the hide to make it feel more real. I assumed once dry, it would stay dry. Well, i was wrong. After he had been on the hide approximately a day and a half, he stretched out of his hide and when i saw him i immediately ran up to him. He had white tile adhesive from head to tail, including on one eye. I totally flipped out. He was moving very slowly and with great effort. I got him out immediately, ran room temp water and applied Dawn soap then rinsed for 45 minutes. He seemed to still move slower than normal, so i repeated the procedure several days in a row, and soaked him the last day with a vitamin soak bath, to try to replenish anything he may have lost due to any chemicals on the tile adhesive. So, 5 weeks later, he just is sluggish still. I am extremely worried about his well being, and will not know what will happen to me emotionally or mentally should i lose Pheonix. We have gotten even closer throughout this process, which i didn’t even think could be possible. He allows me to do absolutely anything and has total trust in me, and i him. So, is this new slowed movement, a sign of something internally wrong, or is it because we have reached an even higher level of bonding, thus more comfortable and even more laid back? Please no negative comments about the hides. The other snakes love their hides. It only happened with Pheonix’ hide. Thank you

  2. First, I would like to say I totally understand your love and trust for your snake and know that your ball python than show the same in its own way. With this said, I say your best approach to this situation is a vet appointment. This would allow all fears to subside, especially if you find one with much experience with pall pythons.

    This concern has been over a month ago; I hope and pray your ball python has recovered and doing well🙏❤️🙏❤️!

  3. I bought both my grandkids baby morph corn snakes. The boy’s palmetto is doing spectacularly as far as being out and about in her tank and I actually (and surprisingly) adore her myself! My grandson doesn’t seem interested in her as much, however, since she defecated on him once and nipped him on the cheek when she was in the shed. He picked her up when I wasn’t looking! But I certainly recognize that snake as a great pet.
    BUT my granddaughter is more interested in her snake. She helps with feeding and caring for him. I am writing because her snake NEVER is visible and hides all the time. He is eating well as is the other one … But her snake is never seen! We have had them about a month. It is possible for my granddaughter to return this snake and get another one. This snake of my granddaughters is a pink and red motley and has pink eyes.


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